man has cried out for help after enjoying five years of threesome with a
friend and his wife. He has been left seriously thinking over a
have been having regular threes0mes with my wife and a male friend for
five years. I wrote to you not long after we started, asking why you say
threes0mes are usually bad news — now I know why.
my wife became pregnant, I couldn’t be sure it was my baby. I’m 37 and
my wife is 35. We’ve been married for 15 years. We have two boys, aged
11 and nine, and a gorgeous girl, who is now two.
We became great friends with a guy who moved in next door to us around six years ago. He’s single and 32.
used to invite him round for drinks on a Friday night and after one
particular drunken night my wife and I started talking to him about his
admitted that s*x for him was becoming a distant memory. I raised the
idea of a threes0me. We were joking around at first but my wife seemed
up for it and so did our friend. We all started k!ssing and soon were
stripping off and having s*x in the lounge. It was awesome.
we all said it had been great fun and we have continued ever since. Our
friend also has s*x alone with my wife with my full consent.
since my wife had our little girl it keeps going through my head that
we don’t actually know who her father is. I don’t know whether to raise
it with my wife, as things aren’t great between us.
go to a swinging club sometimes and the only enjoyment we seem to get
now is when my wife has s*x with others and I watch. It’s fine with both
of us but is this normal?
problem seems to be that I don’t have a high s*x drive. I get more
turned on having s*x with friends at the swinging club than I do with my