Let’s face it most of us think a lot about how to get people we’re attracted to to like us, notice us, and pay us more attention.
Even if women or men are flocking to us already, we’re always looking for ways to become more desirable. It’s human nature to want to be seen as attractive. And attraction isn’t only about looks. It’s about how you engage with someone, how you make them feel, your sense of self.
Below are  10 ways to make yourself irresistible, from wearing red to being a bit cocky.

1. Step Up Your Fashion
Wear clothes that are in style, you like, and fit your body well. Choose colors that complement your hair, eyes and skin tone. Keep some neutral essentials around such as white t-shirts, classic blue and black jeans, and a watch.
Pay attention to the details, Get a stylish haircut, trim your nails and either shave or trim your facial hair. If you have ear or nose hair, it’s time to do some man-scaping. Avoid being overly hairy – a hairy back looks good on no one.

2. Make Sure You Smell Great
You should definitely avoid dousing yourself in cologne, but you should shower, wear a quality deodorant and freshen up your breath. No matter how fit you are or how fashionable, if you smell sweaty or have dog breath, you’re going to be lonely.

3. Hit The Gym
You don’t have to have the look of a hardcore bodybuilder, but you do need to be in shape if you want to be hot. Mix cardio with strength training to sculpt a body that the ladies will love.

4. Be Confident
Everyone knows confidence is attractive. But how do you give off a confident vibe? Being a little cocky may be a good thing. Being humble actually makes you seem less confident and more weak. So don’t be afraid to talk yourself up a bit.

5. Work On Your Eye Contact And Facial Expressions
Try watching some movies that feature really hot actors. Imitate the way that they look at the ladies, and you’ll be golden.
Also Practice your smile, smile with a closed mouth, and don’t smile too widely. Also, let one corner of your mouth go slightly higher than the other.

6. Get A Sexy Walk
Walk with some space between your legs and move more slowly. You’ll exude confidence with your swagger, and you’ll drive women crazy.
Also Practice good posture, a man who stands upright looks confident, while a slouch shows that he is insecure and uncomfortable. Developing good posture will give the impression that you think you’re attractive, which will in turn influence girls to think the same.

7. Develop A Sexy Voice
Avoid imitating radio announcers or newscasters. Instead, imitate the voice of a sexy man in cinema. The ladies will turn just to see who’s talking, and they will melt when you engage them in conversation.

8. Use Your Manners
Common courtesies like holding the door for her and saying thank you will show her the kind of gentleman that you are. Remember that if she gives you a strange look after you use manners, it’s probably because not as many people do that nowadays.

9. Be Unpredictable
Sounds like a no-brainer, but women are drawn to men they can’t control or predict. So make sure to shake things up.Obviously if you’ve already gone rock climbing it won’t be as exciting if you continue suggesting it.
So switch it up. Surprise her with a dinner reservation or a cocktail up the Shard. Research has shown that spontaneity leads to more sex and happiness in a relationship

10. Be Romantic
Romance is about more than buying her flowers and lighting candles. It’s about thoughtfulness and gestures women love. And if you’re trying to set the mood, there’s no better way to do so than by using a lot of the colour red.
Studies have shown that seeing red increases general activation in both women and men, which leads both sexes to exacerbate their initial perception of a moderately attractive male.

11. Be Funny
Women value sense of humour. You can talk about yourself, but keep it impressive and brief with just a touch of humility. Always turn the conversation back to her. Make her find humor in almost everything you say, and you are sure to win her heart.
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